Fast forward 15+ years, and I’ve planned magical weddings, hosted world-class events, doubled event business revenue, created sold-out hospitality suites, and delivered award-winning brand moments.
But I didn’t start there.
I started where you might be now — Googling “how to become an event planner”, learning by doing (and failing), and figuring it all out the long **hard** way.
And I was miserable starting out… Enrolled in a 3-year diploma – costing thousands, teaching me nothing… (I still haven’t used one thing from Uni in my career today…)
After this, I threw myself into the industry – learning as I go, taking on everything and anything that came my way. Great news, this method worked!
Downside is – it took a lot of blood, sweat, and tears to get here..
It was hard as hell – but so worth it: there were so many late nights – but luckily I had my industry friends…
Clients had mega dreams and demands – but they were happy every time…
And all the moments away from home, touring the country to build mega events were hard… I got homesick… But these events grew bigger every single year – and it was glorious!
Every moment was magic. But it didn’t have to be that hard… or lonely…
Now, I’m showing you how to climb the ladder faster — fast-forward past the trial and error with the exact systems, mindset, and tools that took me from student to standout.






To help you THRIVE — at planning the best events, in creating your own business, or even hosting your wedding day.
This is more than templates and checklists.
I’ve spent the last 15+ years turning creative chaos into systems that work — for clients, for couples, and for planners who want a creative career in weddings and events.
I’ve been in the field – the hard way – so you don’t have to be.
This is an operating system for planning, producing, and creating events and weddings – from scratch!
Fast-forward past the trial and error.
🙅♀️ You definitely don’t need to spend tons of time (and money) studying years on end to be part of this industry…
🙅♀️ And you don’t need a big fancy job title or a glamorous clipboard to be an Events or Wedding Planner…
🙅♀️ You don’t have to be stuck in an industry you love, but a role you’ve outgrown…
There’s no need to do it the hard way when you’ve found your solution…
👩💻 You can plan from any point in your career journey – working from anywhere, serving your community, creating impactful events, and doing what you love.
👩💻 You can pivot your career and expand your service offering in the industry! Stay in the game, change your position.
👩💻 You can go solo – be your own boss, be the go-to person in your region.
What’s it going to take to make this real for YOU…
Wherever you are in your journey – starting out, pivoting, or scaling big – we’ve built the tools to meet you there.
No more patching things together – just clear systems and proven strategies to get you moving forward with confidence.
My name is Elsj… I love events and the industry – but I love something else more…
– and watching it all come together!
Education and access to the industry have been a long-term dream and goal of mine – howtoplanevents.com is that dream in motion, and I am so happy to have you part of it!
I believe there’s enough for everyone, and opening up the tools will make the journey of creating incredible events and weddings so much more enjoyable!
A little bit about me….
I live in Cape Town, South Africa – it’s one of the biggest event capitals of the world!
I’m a fur mom of 3 cats – things can get wild!
I’m a Leo + Projector – it explains a lot.. 😅
A small town girl living big city dreams…
In my Cottage Core era, without the countryside.
Love baking – but never follow the recipe…
Addicted to buying books – rarely finish them…
I’ve been planning events and weddings for over 15 years – and this is me sharing the success secrets.
Let’s get to work.
You’re already in the game — now it’s time to lead. This path is for planners who want to run the room, elevate their offer, and build a system-backed business that books.
Learn how this system can get you to your next level.
Start smarter. You don’t need years in the trenches to build experience — we’ve packaged 15+ years of it for you.
Get the mindset, the method, and the momentum to step into your dream career faster.
Planning your own wedding doesn’t have to mean stress and second-guessing. Get expert shortcuts, timelines, and peace-of-mind guidance to design your dream day — without going over budget or burning out!
Your planning questions, answered anytime. Instant access to expert guidance, tools, and resources whenever you need them—so you can keep moving forward with confidence.
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