Hello, I'm Elsj

Your guide to the world of events from idea to execution. I teach you how it’s done. 
 I started as the kitchen sculler and wedding car driver – grinding behind the scenes…
absorbing every detail.

Fast forward 15+ years, and I’ve planned magical weddings, hosted world-class events, doubled event business revenue, created sold-out hospitality suites, and delivered award-winning brand moments.

But I didn’t start there.

I started where you might be now — Googling how to become an event planner, learning by doing (and failing), and figuring it all out the long **hard** way.

 And I was miserable starting out… Enrolled in a 3-year diploma – costing thousands, teaching me nothing… (I still haven’t used one thing from Uni in my career today…)

After this, I threw myself into the industry – learning as I go, taking on everything and anything that came my way. Great news, this method worked! 

Downside is – it took a lot of blood, sweat, and tears to get here..

The experience you'll learn from
The Events and Hospitality Industry has shaped me from the ground up.

 

It was hard as hell – but so worth it: there were so many late nights – but luckily I had my industry friends…

Clients had mega dreams and demands – but they were happy every time… 

And all the moments away from home, touring the country to build mega events were hard… I got homesick… But these events grew bigger every single year – and it was glorious! 

Every moment was magic.✨ But it didn’t have to be that hard… or lonely… 

Now, I’m showing you how to climb the ladder faster — fast-forward past the trial and error with the exact systems, mindset, and tools that took me from student to standout.

Now,
I have one Mission...

To help you THRIVE — at planning the best events, in creating your own business, or even hosting your wedding day.

This is more than templates and checklists.

I’ve spent the last 15+ years turning creative chaos into systems that work — for clients, for couples, and for planners who want a creative career in weddings and events. 

I’ve been in the field – the hard way – so you don’t have to be. 

This is an operating system for planning, producing, and creating events and weddings – from scratch! 

you deserve more than guesswork

Fast-forward past the trial and error.

Learn the stuff that makes a *real* impact. 
Don’t build from scratch…

🙅‍♀️ You definitely don’t need to spend tons of time (and money) studying years on end to be part of this industry…

🙅‍♀️ And you don’t need a big fancy job title or a glamorous clipboard to be an Events or Wedding Planner… 

🙅‍♀️  You don’t have to be stuck in an industry you love, but a role you’ve outgrown… 

There’s no need to do it the hard way when you’ve found your solution… 

TRUTH IS!  

👩‍💻 You can plan from any point in your career journey – working from anywhere, serving your community, creating impactful events, and doing what you love

👩‍💻 You can pivot your career and expand your service offering in the industry! Stay in the game, change your position. 

👩‍💻 You can go solo – be your own boss, be the go-to person in your region.

You just need the right method, map, and fresh momentum.

What’s it going to take to make this real for YOU…

Wherever you are in your journey – starting out, pivoting, or scaling big – we’ve built the tools to meet you there.

No more patching things together – just clear systems and proven strategies to get you moving forward with confidence.

Hey! 👋

So nice to have you here! 

My name is Elsj… I love events and the industry – but I love something else more…

Seeing you thrive

– and watching it all come together!

Education and access to the industry have been a long-term dream and goal of mine – howtoplanevents.com is that dream in motion, and I am so happy to have you part of it! 

I believe there’s enough for everyone, and opening up the tools will make the journey of creating incredible events and weddings so much more enjoyable! 

A little bit about me….

HTPE Be a Star 3  I live in Cape Town, South Africa – it’s one of the biggest event capitals of the world! 

HTPE Be a Star 3  I’m a fur mom of 3 cats – things can get wild! 

HTPE Be a Star 3  I’m a Leo + Projector  – it explains a lot.. 😅

HTPE Be a Star 3 A small town girl living big city dreams… 

HTPE Be a Star 3 In my Cottage Core era, without the countryside. 

HTPE Be a Star 3 Love bakingbut never follow the recipe… 

HTPE Be a Star 3 Addicted to buying booksrarely finish them… 

HTPE Be a Star 3 I’ve been planning events and weddings for over 15 years – and this is me sharing the success secrets. 

 

Welcome.

Let’s get to work.

online event education platform teaching you how to plan events and build a career

Nice to Meet ya!

My 15-Year Journey in Events

You’re already in the game — now it’s time to lead. This path is for planners who want to run the room, elevate their offer, and build a system-backed business that books.

Learn how this system can get you to your next level. 

Plan or pivot – Discover how…
Celebration Coach For Wedding Planners

Start smarter. You don’t need years in the trenches to build experience — we’ve packaged 15+ years of it for you.

Get the mindset, the method, and the momentum to step into your dream career faster.

The Road to Wedding planner…
Celebration Coach for Couples

Planning your own wedding doesn’t have to mean stress and second-guessing. Get expert shortcuts, timelines, and peace-of-mind guidance to design your dream day — without going over budget or burning out!

Plan your wedding in a weekend…
24/7 Support made just for you

Your planning questions, answered anytime. Instant access to expert guidance, tools, and resources whenever you need them—so you can keep moving forward with confidence.

Your Roadmap to getting started

Got Questions?

Good.
We love a curious planner. 

Here’s what folks ask most about the program – and what you’ll want to know before diving in.

»  How do I become a successful event planner without years of experience?
»  What skills do I need to plan weddings and events like a pro? 
»  Can you really make a full-time income as an event or wedding planner? 
»  What tools and templates do professional event planners use? 
»  How can I plan my own wedding without going over budget? 

Online Event Courses
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